The world's first AI-powered relationship coach and emotions mentor from PAIRS, the longtime industry leader in relationship skills training.

Having Someone to Listen to You Anytime - Introducing an Advanced AI-Powered Emotions Mentor


“After forty years as a psychiatrist and marital therapist, PAIRS is my most valuable professional and personal tool.”

Clifford Sager, MD

Cornell Medical Center

New York, NY

“PAIRS is radical in its simplicity and its hands-on-approach … a unique and profoundly effective way to build and heal relationships.”

Don Adams, Ph.D.

Child and Family Psychologist

Cary, NC

“I’m far more in love with [my husband] than ever … I believe PAIRS had an important part in that process.”

Rita DeMaria, Ph.D.

Marriage and Family Therapist

Philadelphia, PA

“We have moved so far in how to listen and how to be responsible in talking to one another.”

Linda Caroll

Marriage and Family Therapist

Corvalis, OR

“My parents became a lot more loving after they went through PAIRS … they know how to work their problems out.”

Erica Anderson

Daughter of PAIRS Graduates

Boulder, CO

Because You are Worth It!

Ten Reasons to Get Yodi Today

Consider these ten incredible reasons to get PAIRS Yodi AI-Powered Relationship Coach Today.

#1 Trained in PAIRS

 

Yodi is trained in PAIRS, a nationally-accredited, industry leader in relationship skills training for nearly half a century.

#2 Evidence-Based

 

Yodi delivers proven, evidence-based exercises developed by leading pioneers in the fields of counseling, therapy, psychology, psychiatry and education including Drs. Virginia Satir, Daniel Casriel, George Bach, and Lori Heyman Gordon.

#3 Complete Triad

 

Yodi covers the triad of communication, conflict resolution, and emotional connection skills -- the critical combination of competencies required for creating and sustaining successful relationships.

#4 Alone or With a Partner


Yodi can be used alone or with a partner. Each exercise can be done with Yodi as an exercise partner or with a real partner.

#5 Practical

 

Yodi will teach you practical, usable skills. You'll learn tools that will produce a lifetime of benefits.

#6 Results

 

You'll discover immediate benefits. Every exercise offers valuable insights and takeaways.

#7 Your Own Pace

 

You can go at your own pace with Yodi. Learn a lesson at a time or spend hours exploring.

#8 Time Tested

 

The skills you'll learn with Yodi are time-tested. PAIRS has been researched and refined since 1975.

#9 Confidential

 

Your experience with Yodi is completely confidential and anonymous. Your privacy is protected. 

#10 Yodi is Free

 

There's no obligation. No credit card required. Right now, Yodi is 100% free. 

Yodi will help you help your relationship  …

 

  • Clarify relationship expectations
  • Overcome a sense of distance
  • Learn to ask for what you want
  • Communicate effectively about differences
  • Get relief from painful, upsetting emotions
  • Discover how to fight for your relationships
  • Expand self-awareness and self-esteem
  • Let go of grudges
  • Track your relationship pleasure resources


Yodi: Your AI Relationship Coach

Practical, Proven, Usable

Yodi is based on PAIRS, the Practical Application of Intimate Relationship Skills program. PAIRS was developed by leading therapists and educators such as Virginia Satir, Daniel Casriel, George Bach and Lori Heyman Gordon to help couples, marriages and families.

 

PAIRS has helped therapists, counselors and also directly helped singles, couples and families improve relationships for nearly half a century.

 

Practical skills for successful relationships, including effective communication, relationship coaching, and an AI-powered emotions mentor.

 

Get Yodi today!


AI Assisted Exercises

Using the latest in AI technology, we're designing a companion for learning these conversational tools.


Along with any other practice partners you can find, let's make the world a kinder, more compassionate place.

How We Can Help

A simple set of tools to help you say how you feel

Format

We give you the format for communicating about tricky topics that puts everyone at ease.

Built-In Safety

These tools allow us to tackle difficult topics while ensuring we feel safe, valued, and heard in the conversation.

Research

Founded in 1983 by Lori Heyman Gordan, PAIRS has had many years to refine these tools.

Exercises

These tools aren't silver bullets. They will only work when we are willing to practice and internalize these habits.

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