What's a Love Knot?

What's a Love Knot?

Love Knots are hidden expectations, assumptions, and faulty perceptions we have, particularly of the people we're closest to. Consider these examples:


If you love me, you would know ...

If we disagree, one of us must be wrong ...

If you are unhappy or unwell, I should be able to fix it ...


Those are just a few of many dozens of common assumptions and hidden expectations we often have of intimates.


Explore more common Love Knots from this PAIRS book.

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